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Start A Conversation, Get Her Information
by David DeAngelo
What pointers can you give guys on starting conversations
with women?
Well, first of all, you must realize that your body language
is more important than the words you use. Wherever you
are and whatever the situation, you must remember that
your composure and body language are the keys.
I've watched a lot of guys approach a lot of women in
my day. And I can usually tell within the first few seconds
if the guy knows what he's doing with women... and if
he's going to be successful.
Most guys use submissive, apologetic body language and
voice tones. They almost look as if they're pleading with
a woman to give them approval, and like they're nervous
and self-conscious about the whole event.
In other words, most guys come across as wussies when
they first approach women. On the other hand, the guys
I know who are the most successful with women are the
opposite.
They're totally cool, calm and collected. They often approach
a woman and begin the conversation like they would with
an old friend.
There is no apologetic body language and no sign of insecurity.
They aren't there to find out if the woman is going to
give them some approval. On the contrary, they are trying
to find out if the woman meets their standards.
Think about how you'd act if you were only interested
in finding out if she's the kind of exceptional woman
that you would like to get to know better, instead of
being concerned about whether or not she's going to like
you... big shift, isn't it?
Now, here's some homework for you:
Sit down and think carefully about the most common situations
in which you see women that you'd like to meet and talk
to.
Think about what's going on in their minds, where they're
going, what they've just done, and what they're about
to do. Think about how they're probably feeling.
Now, come up with 10 different ways to start a conversation
in this situation. Remember that you're the one who is
trying to figure out if she is the kind of woman you'd
like to get to know better.
Once you've come up with 10 good ones, pick your favorite,
and mentally rehearse it. I realize that I'm asking you
to do some work here, but it's really worth it.
I'm going to give you one more hint…
Most of the guys I know who are great with women use the
simplest of simple conversation starters:
"Hi."
"What are you drinking?"
"Hi, are you from around here?"
I realize that these sound simple, and they are. But they're
so simple that they're disarming. They don't come across
as canned "pickup lines," and they help you
figure out very quickly if the woman you're talking to
is friendly.
And remember; relaxed body language is key!
About the Author
David DeAngelo is the author of the book Double Your Dating:
What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful
With Women, and several other products that can help men
become more successful with women and dating. He also
publishes a free online Dating Tips newsletter, available
at www.DoubleYourDating.com. |
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