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FREE CHAT ROOMS ARTICLES - SAFE CHATTING
New to the Net: Safe Chatting
by Linda C. Allardice
One of the first places I visited when I signed up for
my Internet service way back in 1993 was the public chat
rooms. It was so fascinating to have all these strangers
gather together and talk about everything from politics
to just how much they really hated their bosses. My mouth
gaped like a sea bass when I noticed some folks spilling
their guts onto the computer screen and admitting to stuff
that should be kept secret such juicy gossip I
couldnt get at my hairdresser on one of her busiest
days.
Chat rooms are still enormously popular, but the rules
of safety remain as steadfast as a palace guard.
If youre new to the Web, youve got to be extremely
careful in chat rooms. There are some major donts
you need to follow to keep your chatting an enjoyable
yet safe experience.
- Dont ever for whatever reason enter your real
name, address, city, phone number, password, or any
other personal information into a chat room discussion.
Oftentimes, a perpetrator who may want to hack into
your computer -- or worse your home -- can come up
with clever ways to get inexperienced Internet users
to reveal personal information. They might get you
to talk about landmarks, places of interest in your
community, where you work or go to school to zero
in on your location.
- Dont respond to Instant Messages if you dont
know the sender.
Instant Messages are those private messages that pop
up on your screen apart from the main chat room. Some
are easy to detect as spammers when they send you
an IM saying they are a model and want you to look
at their pictures. That screams yes, I am a
porno perp loud and clear.
Some spammers have password sniffers on their end
that can snatch your password if you reply to the
message. One they have your password they can have
a field day with your account.
Spammers might send you an IM that says Warning:
you cannot continue in the Chat Room without entering
your password here. This catches many new Internet
and some veterans off guard and they mistakenly comply
with the request.
- Go to a private chat room if possible.
Some Internet providers allow patrons to create their
own rooms that are somewhat semi-private. Its
a great place for family, friends or business associates
to hang out without getting clobbered by unwanted
intruders and spammers.
Another drawback with public chat rooms is that everyone
Tom, Dick and Harry gets your screen name and clogs
your e-mail box with junk mail.
If you dare enter a public chat room, be prepared
to have an e-mail box full of credit card offers,
specials on Viagra, and sites that promise nude pics
of your favorite celebrities for FREE.
- If you dont want to fight, find another room
Stay in a chat room long enough, and the place begins
to turn into a bar with someone eventually typing
in capital letters (viewed as SHOUTING) claiming God
doesnt exist. Or someone will spill enough racial
slurs onto the screen that would even make Archie
Bunker cringe. These arguments can get pretty heated
because everyone is anonymous, shooting their mouths
off, and taking some nasty shots at others. Dont
engage in hate speech or get involved with those trying
to make trouble. Some chat rooms allow you to ignore
certain people, or even allow you to report those
who are disrupting the chat room.
- Dont let your children enter public chat
rooms without supervision
Too many children are taken advantage of in these
chat rooms and terrible things have happened to them.
Sometimes, they believe they are chatting with someone
their own age, when they are really chatting with
an older person who spends his time on the Internet
trying to lure children into a trap. Make sure your
children never reveal their names, telephone number,
address, school name, password, state, city, or where
their parents work, in a chat room or IM.
No one wants to be taken advantage of, so its especially
important that you keep your guard up when you enter public
chat rooms. Enjoy chatting with folks from around the
world, but remember to keep that line of not-giving-out-personal-information
deeply drawn in the sand, and dont cross it. . .ever.
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